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NewBundle The Conflict Kit

For when two people can’t work together: the Conflict Management Simulator, the Difficult Conversations simulator, the Conflict Resolution Toolkit (assessment worksheet, mediation guide, 60-minute agenda, coaching questions and action plan) and the Escalation Decision Tree, with a start-here guide.

2 simulators + toolkitView on Etsy
Bundle Manager Performance Kit

Seven manager tools in one download, organized by step: the Performance & Goals Command Center app, the Difficult Conversations simulator, plus the goal setting, one-on-one, difficult conversations, write-up and performance review toolkits, with a start-here guide.

App + simulator + templatesView on Etsy

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HR web apps

Tools and simulators that run right in your browser

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NewManager training

Conflict Management Simulator

Two people. One room. You in the middle. Mediate a conflict with both employees reacting to every reply, then read what each of them texted afterwards.

  • Three scenarios: a personality clash, a sales and operations standoff, and the one you shouldn’t mediate at all
  • A live two-person mediation: interruptions, gossip and curveballs, with Trust meters for each person and one for your Neutrality
  • The private caucus: take a quiet word with each person, and learn what you can and can’t keep confidential
  • Two group chats: same meeting, two very different stories, plus the HR view and the model mediation
Opens in your browser5 briefing lessonsFictional scenarios

Also included in the Conflict Kit.

The Conflict Management Simulator showing a live two-person mediation on a laptop and one employee's group chat on a phone

Manager training

Difficult Conversations: Manager Simulator

Practice the conversation before you have to have it. The employee reacts to every reply, and the debrief shows what they texted their friend afterwards.

  • Three scenarios: a slipping star, a conduct issue that ends in a written warning, and the full arc from PIP to termination
  • A live conversation: pushback, tears, silence and curveballs, with Trust and Clarity meters that move with every reply
  • Built on COACH, SOBI and GROW: six short briefing lessons, then real prep, writing and follow-up
  • The Group Chat debrief: what the employee texted afterwards, plus the HR view of your file and the model conversation
Opens in your browser6 briefing lessonsFictional scenarios

Also included in the Manager Performance Kit and the Conflict Kit.

The Difficult Conversations simulator showing a live conversation on a laptop and the group chat debrief on a phone

Investigation training

Case Files: Workplace Investigation Simulator

Practice the hard part before it’s real. Work three realistic investigations from the first report to the 30-day check-in, then see how your file would hold up as Exhibit A.

  • Three full cases: harassment and retaliation, an anonymous fraud tip, and an age-discrimination complaint with mixed findings
  • Interviews with a question budget: open, fair questions build your record, and leading ones get flagged
  • Real work product: write allegations and summaries, make findings tied to the evidence, and compare with model answers
  • A debrief that stings a little: a defensibility score across seven standards and the questions opposing counsel would ask
Opens in your browser6 briefing lessonsFictional cases

Running a real one? Pair it with the Internal Investigations Toolkit: the same process as templates, checklists and interview guides.

The Case Files simulator showing an interview on a laptop and a debrief score on a phone

Performance management

Performance & Goals Command Center

Set clear goals, hold better check-ins and walk into review season prepared. Built for small businesses, HR teams and people leaders.

  • Goals that measure what matters: percent complete, number targets, milestones or described outcomes, with a short note on every update
  • Check-ins that lead somewhere: guided talking points, goal updates as you talk, and follow-ups that carry forward until they’re done
  • Review prep for every cycle: pull goals, check-ins and follow-ups into a summary you write in your own words. No ratings or rankings
  • See where every team stands: progress by team, check-in coverage and review readiness, with print and spreadsheet export
Opens in your browserNo subscriptionSample data included

Also included in the Manager Performance Kit, with five manager toolkits.

The Performance and Goals Command Center dashboard on a laptop and a review prep summary on a phone

Onboarding

Onboarding Command Center

Every new hire, every task, one calm dashboard. Add someone’s start date and they get a dated checklist from pre-boarding to day 90, automatically.

  • 28-task onboarding plan for HR, managers, IT, buddies and the new hire, with due dates set from each start date
  • Make it yours without code: add, edit and reorder tasks with timing like “3 days before start”
  • 7 editable templates (welcome email, first-day schedule, buddy intro and more) that fill in each new hire’s details
  • See what’s slipping: overdue tasks, upcoming starts and completion rates at a glance
Opens in your browserNo subscriptionInstant download
The Onboarding Command Center dashboard on a laptop and a new hire checklist on a phone

Every app saves only in your own browser on your device. Nothing is stored online, so use the built-in backups and keep confidential employee information out.

The Real Talk series

HR e-books that tell it like it is

True-to-life stories from inside the function, with the scripts and questions you can use the next morning.

Book One · E-book

Nobody Told Me HR Would Be Like This

The job description did not mention the ketchup. Or the arrest in the HR office. Or going from a board update to a PTO question before lunch. A candid, funny field guide to the work behind the title.

  • 13 chapters in four parts: from the day HR stopped being theoretical to the emotional labor nobody sees
  • 12 word-for-word scripts: for the conversations HR actually has, collected in a printable Say-This Cheat Sheet
  • Reflection pages: questions to sit with on your own or bring to your team, with space to write
  • A gift that lands: for the new HR pro, the seasoned HRBP, or the manager who keeps saying “I’ll take this to HR”
Instant PDF download37 designed pagesRead or print
Cover of the e-book Nobody Told Me HR Would Be Like This, with a confidential folder, an HR mug, a ketchup bottle and a sticky note

Book Two · E-book

Congratulations, You’re in the Middle

One leader has a concern about another. The second has a different concern about the first. And now you’re the approved route for every message nobody wants to deliver directly. Surviving executive conflict, competing agendas, and the politics nobody put in your job description.

  • 13 chapters in four parts: from “Can you just talk to them?” to keeping your seat at the table without losing yourself
  • 12 word-for-word scripts: for carrying messages back, confidentiality limits, and handing the decision to the person who owns it
  • 8 field tools: a quick sorting tool, a reset-plan checklist, a boundary check, and a six-step way to think in systems
  • A fill-in Executive Operating Agreement: decision rights, handoffs, escalation and accountability, on one page
Instant PDF download35 designed pagesTemplate included
Cover of the e-book Congratulations, You're in the Middle, with two speech bubbles asking Can you just talk to them, envelopes, an HR mug and a sticky note

Book Three · E-book

Apparently, I’m Too Young to Know Anything

Same idea. Different messenger. Completely different reception. For the capable professional in a room that has already decided how much you know, and for the leaders who want to make room for the next one.

  • 12 chapters in three parts: from the BlackBerry comment to the moving goalposts to confidence without the apology tour
  • 12 word-for-word scripts: credibility resets and three ways to respond to an age-based comment, from light to boundary-setting
  • 12 field tools: the evidence stack, five lenses for weighing experience, a stakes ladder, and apology-to-clarity swaps
  • Printable worksheets: an evidence-to-recommendation framework, a factual pattern log, and reflection pages
Instant PDF download42 designed pagesWorksheets included
Cover of the e-book Apparently, I'm Too Young to Know Anything, with a keypad phone, avocado toast, an iced coffee and a sticky note reading Same idea. Different messenger.

Book Four · E-book

I’m Not Your Manager’s Babysitter

“Go ask HR.” Three words. Five seconds. Cleaning up after leaders who should know better: what managers own, what HR owns, and what happens when those lines get blurry.

  • 12 chapters in three parts: from the answer kiosk to the favorite child problem to documentation that isn’t a time machine
  • 14 word-for-word scripts: for handing the work back without handing over the relationship
  • 13 field tools: a performance rhythm, a fairness check, a documentation structure, and when to shift from coaching to accountability
  • The Manager’s Field Guide: “Before you call HR” prompts plus ownership and boundary checklists
Instant PDF download42 designed pagesField guide included
Cover of the e-book I'm Not Your Manager's Babysitter, with an inbox tray of forms for HR to handle, a Go ask HR mug, a baby bottle and a sticky note reading Have you called them?

Book Five · E-book

This Meeting Could Have Been an Email

A meeting is not progress just because it happened. A candid, funny look at workplace dysfunction: the update meetings, the “per my last email” energy, the approval maze, and the circle-back that never circles back.

  • 12 chapters in four parts: from the meeting that ate your calendar to getting things done in spite of everything
  • 12 visual frameworks: a meeting-or-email decision flow, a change communication plan, decision rights, and the approval maze
  • 9 field tools: a better way to run the meeting, a decision path for the endless circle-back, and a personal calendar reset
  • Borrow These Sentences: 10 word-for-word scripts on one copy-and-paste page
Instant PDF download45 designed pagesScripts included
Cover of the e-book This Meeting Could Have Been an Email, with a laptop showing a fully booked calendar, an envelope reading Per my last email, a coffee cup and a sticky note reading Let's circle back.

NewBook Six · E-book

There’s No HR for HR

You can be a safe place for other people without pretending you never need one yourself. The emotional labor, impossible expectations, and realities of being the person everyone else turns to.

  • 12 chapters in four parts: from the confidentiality tax to the emotional whiplash to what happens when your boss is the problem
  • 10 visual frameworks: container vs. sponge, need-to-know vs. nice-to-know, burnout signals, and what is yours to carry
  • 14 word-for-word scripts: for confidentiality limits, boundaries, and holding the line
  • Your Support Plan: a fill-in worksheet to build your outlets before you desperately need them
Instant PDF download42 designed pagesWorksheet included
Cover of the e-book There's No HR for HR, with an HR lanyard badge, a glass jar holding papers, a sponge and a sticky note reading Be the container, not the sponge.

Courses

Master the art of leadership and HR

Practical, self-paced training for HR professionals and people leaders.

Udemy course

Difficult Conversations and Conflict Management for Leaders

Prepare for and lead tough conversations and workplace conflict with a clear, repeatable approach.

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Udemy course

Performance Management Framework

Build a performance management approach that is fair, consistent and coaching-focused.

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Udemy course

Goal Setting Framework

Set clear goals and expectations your team can understand and achieve.

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Udemy course

Internal Investigations Best Practices

Run fair, well-documented workplace investigations from intake to close.

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Udemy course

Employment Law Basics for HR Professionals

Core employment law fundamentals for HR professionals and people leaders.

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The HR Edit was created to bridge the gap between HR theory and the realities of leading people. After more than 15 years in human resources leadership, the founder has seen that some of the most important moments at work don’t come with a playbook: difficult conversations, employee relations challenges, investigations, performance concerns and leadership decisions.

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